Make ObjectRelationListCommand commands work with soft-deleted objects

Summary: Also add --with-deleted flag to include soft-deleted relations

Test Plan: ./phpstan tests/Feature/Console

Reviewers: #hkccp_developers, mollekopf

Reviewed By: #hkccp_developers, mollekopf

Subscribers: #hkccp_developers

Differential Revision: https://git.kolab.org/D4689